That's when the telephoto lens comes in handy....Sent her off to go play with her brother while I "spied" on her with my lens.
Slowly she started coming around...at this point I had gotten closer, but she would only look at me if she was "connected" to mom or dad. She didn't even respond to my normal lame jokes!
FINALLY, she figured out I wasn't so bad after all. And I figured out her favorite word...."CHEESE!"
We had fun! Lots and lots of photos.